Hit with Kindness


September 23


Read Psalm 141:3-5

Set a guard over my mouth, LORD; keep watch over the door of my lips. Do not let my heart be drawn to what is evil so that I take part in wicked deeds along with those who are evildoers; do not let me eat their delicacies. Let a righteous man strike me-that is a kindness; let him rebuke me-that is oil on my head. My head will not refuse it, for my prayer will still be against the deeds of evildoers.



How do you handle temptation? How well do you accept godly counsel and accountability?


When I am struggling with temptation, I often ask someone close to me that I can trust to hold me accountable. For example, I might ask my spouse not to let me eat another snack before bed or to make sure I get up in the morning to workout. The accountability is helpful to me.


But on occasion, I receive a bit of accountability that I did not solicit. Maybe someone at church called me out on acting selfishly. Or rebuked me for participating in gossip. Maybe my spouse reprimanded me for my impatience with the kids. Getting called out often feels like a slap in the face.


But King David called a strike from a righteous man a “kindness.” When a righteous man rebuked him, it was like anointing his head with oil. David knew it was a blessing to receive correction.


If we pray as David did that God would keep us from evil, it is likely that God is going to use believers around us to speak truth into our lives whether we want to hear it or not. We don’t have to like the feeling of conviction. But we can choose how we react to it.


If we are wise, we’ll react as David did. We won’t refuse the reprimand. We’ll take it as a kindness. As an opportunity to course-correct and improve. After all, a fellow believer loved us enough to care about our holiness. David’s son Soloman put it this way in Proverbs 15:32, “Whoever ignores instruction despises himself, but he who listens to reproof gains intelligence.”



Father, discipline doesn’t feel good in the moment. But I know it is for my own benefit to listen to the righteous and godly friends that You have placed into my life who speak truth. Help me to humbly receive it. Amen.

~ Pastor Nat Crawford


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We know how to talk and behave in most situations. Seems if we are around certain ppl who use profanity then we may be tempted to do the same. There is an old saying “ loose lips sink ships”. We must be on guard not to fall into such a trap. We have to be true to ourselves before we can be true to anyone else. By honoring ourselves, we in turn, honor our Lord and savior as well as those around us. We most likely are the “example” those who use profanity as their primary language, to stop.
My Lord and my God, You have put others in place just to keep me in check. Help me Lord to be humble of heart and receive their instruction.
Please pray for my son and gr. son , I am losing them to this world's evil. GOD knows where they are please Father help me to bring them back to YOU LORD JESUS
Psalm 141:5 Let the righteous men strike me- it is a kindness, let him rebuke me-it is oil for my head; let not refuse it. Yet my prayer is conually against their evil deeds.
Dear Lord, help me to humbly receive when I am reprimanded. Help me to continue to grow in your Word. Getting called out does feel like a slap in the face, I will turn the other cheek.
Discipline can be hard, but it is also needed, thank you Lord for loving me enough to correct my wrongs.
Lord, help me open my ears to hear the truth of the righteous people You put in my life, in Jesus' Name!!!!!!! Amen
Receiving correction from a Godly-oriented believer can be embarassing and at times harsh, but it is what we need inwardly to get us back to the path of righteousness in God. Pastor Bob
Yes thank you
Father may you continue to cleanse my heart of all unrighteousness. Thanks for the devotion.
Father I ask that You help me to do better with correction. Sometimes I do not see correction as it truly is. Father I need You to "set guard over my mouth, keep watch over the door to my lips." Only You can and I know You will Father. I pray this prayer in Your precious Son Jesus' name, Amen
Yes, I have to learn to accept feedback from my spouse and relatives as advice and not as criticism and hold my tongue before responding..
Good message! I’ve been working on this!
Thank you pastor I thank God for another day
Yes , So often our first reaction to Constructive Criticism is to be defensive, what a testimony to start turning to the criticizer and say, thank you
Amen! Lord, thank You for providing "Godly Council " in my life as I journey with You. Help me to graciously and humbly accept the guidance and love shown by others, and grant me wisdom and a discerning heart.
Amen. Thank you my lord and savior.
Being wise and being humble go together. The humble learn that they are not in control but God is and he often uses people to guide us on our path of following him. Humble yourself before the Lord and he will lift you up. Amen
Thanks for the reminds about how one should behave in times of discipline.
Thank you for your very timely instruction from the Word of God Amen!
Thank you!
Unless one is humble he cannot be an obedient student. God teaches His children through the Holy Spirit, spiritual values to help them meture in faith so that they can correct others in the family of God. Thank you its a good lesson as we grow spititually.
Thank you Lord for today's devotion...I am a victim of gossip (office) but after this devotion I promise to choose right when reprimanded. Not to take it as an offence... God bless